'[She] wastes my time and money': Entitled Karen keeps eating roommate's food, roommate discovers her distaste for vegetables, enacts petty payback

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    "I realized that neither of them ever eat vegetables [...] So I started putting vegetables in EVERYTHING"
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    I put vegetables in all my food to stop my roommate's kid from eating it. Mom threatens LEGAL action
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    I posted this before in a different sub but I figured it would be appreciated here and I have more things to add Original post-
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    I posted this in another forum but received a lot of comments telling me to post it here as well.
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    1(26f) live in a rented house with a single mother (30f) and her son (6m). I had another person living with me but they moved out and the mother moved in. I don't
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    mind living with her and her kid. It's fine and we kind of do our own thing. I spend a lot of time at my boyfriend's place or working. Our work
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    schedules collide so we really don't interact much but when we do it's fine. No issue there.
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    I want to start with saying that she clearly struggles financially but I don't think it's an excuse. I don't make lots of money either.
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    However I've noticed that my food would go missing or portions would be taken from it. I assumed it
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    was her kid so I asked her if she'd stop him from eating my food. I was calm about it and she just said she would. It didn't
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    really upset me when it first started. It started getting annoying when I'd get home from work and expect to have a meal's worth of leftovers in the fridge only to see it
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    picked through or just gone. I kept bringing it up and she started getting annoyed with me bringing it up.
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    Just from observing them I realized that neither of them ever eat vegetables. And judging by the food that would get picked through and the food that would be untouched.
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    Anything with green in it was avoided. Orange chicken would be gone but chicken and broccoli would be untouched. So l
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    started putting vegetables in EVERYTHING. I find vegetables to be delicious. And anything green or not a potato does not get eaten. So I
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    could mix some bell peppers into the food and it would be fine. I make a big portion of vegetables. pretty frequently anyway
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    so I just started putting it in everything I eat. If I had leftover mashed potatoes i'd pour green beans in and mix it up. If I had leftover cheesy/bacon fries I'd pour broccoli all over it and mix it in.
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    Usually my homemade stuff has vegetables in it but I started making sure everything did. I made a pot of mac n cheese (the kid's favorite thing) and poured in roasted brussel sprouts. Which is actually
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    delicious to me and I'm eating more vegetables so it's a win win. She had been seeming annoyed but we were all home when I made the pot of mac n cheese. She was in
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    the living room and saw me get out the brussel sprouts and was like "what are you going to do with that?" and I poured
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    them in. She said I was being greedy and annoying. I just said "I like brussel sprouts" and that was it. She said "we need food" and I told her to go get some. Or stop buying only prepackaged things and your money will go further.
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    I think she sees this as some big act of revenge but I just simply want to be able to eat my food.
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    Also want to add that the sharing is not the issue. It's expecting to have food there and it's not. So
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    often I'd be working a long day and get home expecting to have a meal's worth of food and it all be gone. Or I wake
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    up in a rush and had my food ready to eat in the morning only to find it. gone. So now I have to skip breakfast. If she would simply text sometimes "hey is it okay if we eat *food item*" |
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    would know and know to make other plans. I would stop for food or know I have to whip something up when I get home. Also I think eating the LAST of someone else's food is crazy and r . If
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    someone makes a big pot of something and you ask for a serving, sure. But if someone made something and there is one serving left and you eat it without permission that is evil as h☐.
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    UPDATE So I have been steadfast with putting vegetables in everything. I've put vegetables in things I've never even thought of.
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    This has carried on and the mom calls me a j but will not verbalize that she is eating my food.
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    She just sees me making a lasagna and adding celery and bellpeppers in the layers of fumes off to the side. The only thing I can't add vegetables to is snacks like chips or if I bake brownies or cookies.
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    However this is easily remedied by putting baked goods in a tupperware and keeping them in my room. Same with chips. As I have previously stated the sharing is not the issue.
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    Recently the kid knocked on my door and asked if he would have a bag of microwave popcorn. I said yes and gave him one. All of this would be way less annoying if she'd just text "hey can I
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    have some of this" and waited for my response before just helping herself.
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    I do feel for the mom because she clearly struggles with cooking and trying new foods. She is older than me and winces at the thought of biting into anything
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    green. And it is spreading to her kid but it's no excuse. A few days ago I was making taco meat out of ground beef and like usual she was looking without looking. She was
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    off to the side watching my every move but trying her to look normal. I made a dish the day before that involved sautéed mushrooms and cut up peppers. So when
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    the meat was almost ready I opened the fridge and she freaked when she saw me holding the mushrooms. She said " (son's name) hates mushrooms!" and I just
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    poured them in the pan and mixed along with the cut up peppers. This caused her to react in a way I'd never seen from her before. She was
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    yelling and stomping around the kitchen while the kid just watched. Felt bad for the kid to have to see his mom like that.
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    People were worried about her tampering with my food. I don't think she's the kind to do that but if she did I would report that right away.
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    She was flipping out but she didn't my food or knock anything over. She was opening and slamming cabinets and it was all very silly.
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    Then she started going off about how she is going to get the authorities involved. I just told her "sure" and that she needs to relax. She seemed genuinely upset
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    and stressed and I told her that I understand being a single mom is hard but she needs to use her government assistance more responsibly. She'll come
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    home with cold mac n cheese, sushi, and chicken from the grocery store prepared foods and ball if it on that. I suggested food pantries
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    and buying ingredients that last a while like potatoes. She said I was being condescending and I always have food to eat.
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    This is to address the "just make a portion of your food and set it aside for her and the kid." I do NOT make enough money to regularly feed two other people. If every now and then she asked for some of my leftovers,
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    sure. But this is a consistent thing that was happening. It's not simple as giving her leftovers that I "won't eat anyway."
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    If I make a pot of something I expect live off of that for the next few days. If it is eaten then MY money is messed up and I have to go shopping again and budget for more food. Wastes my time and money

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